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Since the publication of my books, Addiction to Love and The Art of Changing, many people have asked me for my advice. I am happy to say that I have finally decided to hang out my shingle and make my services available. Please understand that I am not a therapist. I am a licensed teacher—with 30 years of experience helping people understand the nature and origin of their problems and how they can find the path to a better life. My specialty is working with love addicts, avoidance addicts, codependents and couples. I am also a wounded healer which means I am a recovering love addict myself. This is why I know healing is possible and that my advice really works.


A Skype Session is $50 for 30 Minutes

E-mail counseling: The cost is $60 for sixty minutes worth of advice. Send me your story and a list of questions.

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Online Workshop

This is a nine-lesson course based on the class I taught for 15 years.


Life Coach

As a Life Coach, you would have unlimited conact with me. I would be available everyday to exchange emails about what is going on in your current relationship. I would give guidance and answer your questions. We would go through together the stages of  meeting, selection, dating, courtship, and partnership.? There would be a verbal contract that you would contact me before doing anything drastic like getting married or ending the relationship. I will point out what you are doing wrong and look for signs that you are going in the wrong direction. When you are ready to go it alone I am still available. The cost is $200/month.

Announcement: In 2014 I began working as a concierge teacher. I have been to Switzerland and my last client flew in from Germany. If you want to schedule this three-day workshop I can come to you or you can come to me. Each day we spend four hours together in a hotel room (10-12 am & 1-4 pm). Usually three days will be enough time to really get you started in recovery. You might call it a mini-treatment center with only you as a client. Contact me for more information.

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Disclaimer: My background is in teaching. I am a licensed teacher in the state of California. My counseling takes my teaching to a personal level. It is to the point and advice-driven. I have studied psychotherapy enough to know when I should not be working with someone, so if I do engage with a client I may confront him or her directly rather than tiptoe around the problem. Think Dr. Phil.

My expertise is teaching people how to help themselves. and I specialize in treating men who suffer from love addiciton or codependency I have been doing this for 30 years since I discovered I was a love addict.

Remember: There is always a brighter tomorrow. Trust me. I am a recovering love addict. I have been there. I know what the pain is like and what it takes to recover. It takes time and we must be patient. But we cannot do this alone. As they say in CoDA. We need each other.


The Difference Between Psychotherapy
and What I Offer

Psychotherapy is done with a licensed therapist. It can be defined in different ways. Click here for a detailed list of definitions.






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